best start - your health… before pregnancy  
<back
step 2/21
 
Is there a baby in your future?
Alcohol
Smoking
Medications
Healthy Eating
Folic Acid
Being Active
Environment
Stress
Finances
Fertility
Age
For Men Only
HIV/AIDS
Sexually Transmitted Infections
Ready for Parenting
Reaching Out
Breastfeeding
Pregnancy Loss
Safe Relationships
Search Away
 
Alcohol - putting baby before booze
Beer and hockey. Wine and food. Friends and liquor. For years, these pair-ups have been part of Canadian culture. Many people have found the key to drinking a safe amount of alcohol. But when people start thinking about having a baby, different ideas may surface.
Alcohol can affect a man’s sperm. Men who drink alcohol have a greater chance of having low sperm counts – making it harder for a couple to get pregnant. And no one knows for sure how much alcohol it takes to harm a baby as it forms inside a mom-to-be. But we do know that each time a woman drinks, the alcohol will reach the growing baby. The baby’s body and brain can struggle to develop normally. The child could face future problems in their intellectual and physical capabilities and behaviour. These are challenges no parent would want to risk if they had a choice. If you are planning a pregnancy, you need to cut out all alcohol all of the time once you stop using birth control and know there is a chance of pregnancy.
Glass action – what you can do

People drink alcohol at different times for different reasons. You have your own. Think about when you drink. What other activities can you do instead, even before pregnancy?

    I can…
1
  Use alcohol-free mixers at parties such as equal parts juice and ginger ale.
2
  Get physical, become active before pregnancy.
3
  Read a book on baby names, parenting or other interests.
4
  Talk with a friend.
5
  My ideas of other activities I can do instead of drinking alcohol:


So much has been written about alcohol and health. On one hand, studies tell us that small amounts of alcohol may protect our hearts. On the other hand, studies also tell us that more than 2 drinks a day may lead to possible health problems. What we do know is that pregnancy is not a time for drinking – it is a time for new beginnings. In fact, it is best to stop drinking before pregnancy.

For help close to home, contact:
Motherisk   Motherisk, Alcohol & Substance Use Helpline: 1-877-327-4636 or www.motherisk.org
CAMH   Drug & Alcohol Facts Information Line
(Centre for Addiction & Mental Health):
1-800-463-6273
Ontario Local Public Health Unit or call INFOline at 416-314-5518 / 1-800-268-1154
your health care provider
local community mental health services
Alcoholics Anonymous and/or Al-Anon
 
What is your drinking personality?
The facts about alcohol become more sobering when you start talking about pregnancy. For you and your partner, this could be a time to take a close look at old habits. As much as you want a baby, can you really pour your last drink? Ask yourself these questions:
  what are the reasons I choose to drink?
  how often is alcohol a part of my life? (daily, monthly or at social events)
  how would I feel about not drinking at all at the next party I am invited to?
  do I associate drinking with smoking, eating, watching TV or other activities?
  how long would it take me to become alcohol-free?
Am I hooked?

“I like to have a few drinks now and then. I don’t really need it. I can give it up any time.” Or can you? If you have a drinking problem, often you are the last person to recognize it. Even if you know you have a drinking problem you probably don’t talk about it. What is a drinking problem?

Answer yes or no to the following questions:

  I feel I should cut down on my drinking.
  People annoy me when they bug me about my drinking.
  I sometimes feel guilty about my drinking and the behaviour it causes.
  At times I drink first thing in the morning to steady my nerves or treat a hangover.
  On days when I have alcohol, I drink more than two drinks* .
  I drink more than 9 drinks*  in an average week (women).
  I drink more than 14 drinks*  in an average week (men).
   

* One standard drink is
- one bottle of beer (341ml, 12oz, 5% alcohol)
- one bottle cooler (341ml, 12oz, 5% alcohol)
- one glass of wine (142ml, 5oz, 12% alcohol)
- one small glass sherry or port (85ml, 3oz, 18% alcohol)
- one shot of spirits (43ml, 1.5oz, 40% alcohol)

All of these contain the same amount of alcohol and will have the same effect on the fetus. Check the container. Some beverages contain higher amounts of alcohol.

 
  Download the complete workbook - 2 mb PDF  
Go
  Download this section - 56kb PDF  
Go
 
©™2005 beststart.org All rights reserved. Home | Resources | Contact Us | Links